In the wild world of rock and roll, some backstage tales just won’t quit.
Stories about bands wanting only certain colors of M&Ms or specific teas in their dressing rooms are legendary, much like the tale of artists who didn’t want anyone looking directly at them. But this last myth, while entertaining, might not be all true.
People often thought Prince was the artist who hated eye contact, a story confirmed by many around him, but Bob Dylan’s name also got thrown into the mix. However, Dylan himself says it’s not accurate.
Dylan recently shared a post after attending a Nick Cave concert in Paris. An astrologer named Cheryl Henry, who had many talents including acting and comedy, replied to his post. She recounted her experience from when she was a backup dancer for Dylan during the 1998 Grammys’ “Soy Bomb Incident.” She met Dylan backstage, and he complimented her hair, but later, her boss said she should avoid making eye contact with him.
In usual circumstances, Dylan wouldn’t respond, but this time, he decided to clear things up in a response verified by his team. He wrote, “Saw your reply. Just want you to know I’ve never told anybody not to make eye contact with me. That is just ridiculous. And the next time you see me please look straight into my eyes.” Henry happily replied, feeling relieved that it wasn’t Dylan’s order.
This isn’t the first time this myth has been debunked. Back in 2014, Jeff Tweedy shared with Esquire how he heard the same story before opening for Dylan. Expecting to avoid eye contact, he was surprised when Dylan greeted him warmly.
Fans find these stories amusing because they show how myths can spread even among famous people.
So, if you ever spot Dylan somewhere, don’t hesitate to say hello and have a chat. He’d be totally cool with it.
Well, maybe.
